Tuesday, May 24, 2022
Yevamot 78 - Can a mamzer survive?
Thursday, April 7, 2022
Yevamot 31 - Did I really marry you?
The first complication may arise if the now-deceased had two wives, one of which happens to be forbidden to the live brother. For example, she could be the brother's daughter, the dead man's niece. The brother cannot marry his daughter, and the other wife is automatically released from either yibum or chalitzah.
The second complication may arise when we are in doubt whether the deceased man married his niece or not. This doubtful marriage is the focus of our investigation here. How could it happen? Here is how. Instead of giving his bride the betrothal document, he threw it at her, and it fell to the ground. Now, if it fell closer to her, she would be married. If it fell closer to him, she is not. If it fell in the middle, we have a doubt.
The solution? The alive brother should release both wives and cannot marry either. Thus, he does the halitzah to both but cannot do a yibum.
Art: The Brothers Konrad und Franz Eberhard by Johann Anton Ramboux
Wednesday, March 16, 2022
Yevamot 4 - Looking for a permission to marry one's daughter
He will marry his daughter off to his brother (the Torah law allows marriage with the niece.) Then, when his brother dies, he gets to marry his daughter as his brother's wife or a "yevamah." True, there is a prohibition against marrying one's daughter, but it is overwritten by a positive commandment to marry a yevamah.
His source? Two verses: "You should not wear wool and linen together" and next to it, "You shall fringes on your garment." For your fringes (tzitzit), you can use wool and linen together. In fact, that is what they did in the Temple, making the priests' belts. This teaches us that "do" overwrites "don't do."
He seems to have built his case? We answer that "do" overwrite "don't do" only for relatively light prohibitions, such as wearing wool and linen together. Marrying one's daughter - or any other similar ban - is more strict. So even the mitzvah of yibum does not help him turn the forbidden into permitted.
Art: Henri Rouart and his Daughter Helene by Edgar Degas
Thursday, March 10, 2022
Yevamot 3 - Sleeping with one's daughter
We are not talking about his legitimate daughter because she is "his wife's daughter," and it is indeed prohibited. Instead, we are talking about his out-of-the-wedlock daughter from his lover who is not his wife. Why can't he sleep with her?
First, one should not marry a woman and her daughter because they are close relatives, and it is a shame. Second, one should not sleep with his son or daughter's daughter because it is a shame. Since these two phrases include a similar word, "shame" or "heinnah" in Hebrew, we can combine the prohibitions and derive that sleeping with one's daughter, even born out of wedlock, is incest.
The teacher (Tanna) who taught this law loved involved logic. Since this law is a perfect example, the teacher has put one's daughter as the first in the list of the fifteen women who are automatically released from yibum or chalitzah.
Father and Daughter by Charles H. Moreau
Friday, February 18, 2022
Chagigah 9 - What is right and what is wrong
What happens if he went to Jerusalem, visited the Temple, but did not bring a Chagigah sacrifice, and the Festival is now ended? He missed his chance, and nothing can be done now. The following statement by King Solomon applies to him, "A crooked thing cannot be straightened, and a lack cannot be counted."
What are the other examples of irreparable losses? One misses the time to say the prayer of "Shema, Israel!" in the morning or evening. One who has relations with a woman who is forbidden to him (like a sister or another man's wife) and she gives birth to an illegitimate child (mamzer.) But some people do not agree that this phrase refers to these cases. They say to become crooked, one must start out straight. Who is this? - This is a Sage who went to the bad side.
Art: Motherly love by Albert Neuhuys
Saturday, February 12, 2022
Kabbalah of Chagigah 3
These two brothers were the reincarnation of Eldad and Medad. Eldad and Medad are among the seventy-two sages who prophesied in the camp. They were also brothers, sons of Yocheved whom she bore while being divorced from Amram.
There were two reasons why they were born mute in this reincarnation. Amram did not give Yocheved a Get with a whole heart. The second was that their prophecy was about Moses' death and thus inappropriate without permission. Thus, in the new incarnations, they were born mute, and they first suffered and then corrected this defect through Torah study. This, then, was their Tikkun (correction.)
Art: Two Brothers by Maurice Leloir
Thursday, February 3, 2022
Moed Katan 22 - The stages of mourning
With the closing of the casket begins the "shivah," which lasts for seven days. When the body is buried without a coffin, shiva starts with the closing of the grave. If the body is taken to a different city, those mourners who do not accompany the body begin shivah as soon as they take leave of the body.
Burying and mourning for one's parents are different from the other close relatives. For all other relatives, the sooner he buries them - the better. For his father and mother, one who eulogizes them is praiseworthy. In the former times, the pallbearers would stop many times on the way, and at each stop, some additional eulogizing and mourning would take place.
Art: Mourning by Jules Charles Boquet
Wednesday, February 2, 2022
Moed Katan 21 - For whom to mourn
However, when his close relatives die, the priest must, on the contrary, become impure and take part in the funeral. Who are these close relatives? - His mother and father, his son and his daughter, his brother, his unmarried sister, and his wife.
The same list of seven close relations applies to ordinary people who mourn a relative. How does one express his mourning? He makes ritual clothes rending, does not work, does not bathe, does not engage in marital relations, does not wear shoes, does not wear tefillin, and does not study Torah.
Art: Artist`s Parents, by David Wilkie
Tuesday, February 1, 2022
Moed Katan 20 - Not to be the bearer of bad news
Rav did not want to report bad news. At that point, Rabbi Chiya understood that both Rav's parents had passed away. Both Rav's parents were relatives of Rabbi Chiya from his parents' previous marriages. Now, Rabbi Chiya had to observe the laws of mourning (shivah) for both of them. Rabbi Chiya said to his attendant, "Help me take off my shoes and carry my clothing after me to the bathhouse."
From the words of Rabbi Chiya, we learned three laws. First, a mourner is prohibited from wearing shoes. In the case of Rabbi Chiya, it was "delayed news," so he only had to take his shoes off for a short time. Second, in the case of delayed news, a mourner observes the shivah only for a day and not seven days. Therefore, even though usually a mourner is prohibited from bathing, Rabbi Chiya was allowed to bathe after a day. And third, part of the day is counted as a full day, and Rabbi Chiya already demonstrated his mourning by taking off the shoes.
Peasant Burial by Erik Werenskiold
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
Megillah 31 - Reading Torah in the synagogue
We already saw a conversation where God tells Abraham that the world exists in the merit of the sacrifices in the Temple. Here we have the continuation of this conversation. Abraham asked, "That answer is good when the Temple is standing. But without the Temple, if the Jews sin - you will destroy them!" God replied that while the Jews are reading the Torah portions, which contain sections about offering, it is as if they were bringing the offerings. That is why they will be forgiven.
Art: Jews Mourning in a Synagogue by Sir William Rothenstein
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Megillah 27 - Selling a Torah scroll
However, one can sell a Torah scroll in two cases. The first one is to learn more Torah - because learning leads to actions, which are good deeds. And second is the purpose of marrying a woman because "He did not create the world to be void; He formed it to be inhabited."
Thursday, January 6, 2022
Megillah 26 – Selling a synagogue
The townspeople who sold the town square are allowed to buy a synagogue with the proceeds, but if they sold a synagogue, they are not allowed to buy a town square with that money.What is unique about a town square? Going back to Taanit, we know that people used to pray there on the seven strict fast days, so this teacher holds that this gives the town square some holiness.
In any case, we see here the rule of "we bring up in holiness but don't bring down." What is the source for this rule? For the first part, we get it from Betzalel creating the Tabernacle object, and then Moses, who was on the higher level, putting it together. The "don't bring down" part is learned from the two hundred and fifty people who joined Korach in his revolt: the pans they used to offer the incense were not disposed of but beaten into the covering for the Altar.
What about keeping on the same level? For example, can one sell a synagogue to buy another one? The rule leaves it open, and there are two opinions ("yes" and "no"), but in practice, it is permitted. There are also other considerations with the synagogue: care must be taken to prevent negligence of not buying or building another synagogue later.
If the people in a village built a synagogue building strictly for themselves, their authorized representatives could sell it in the presence of the place's residents. However, a city synagogue is usually built with contributions from out-of-town people and for the use of everyone, so in general, it cannot be sold.
Art: A Cathedral On A Townsquare In Summer by Cornelis Springer
Wednesday, January 5, 2022
Megillah 25 - The awareness of spirituality
"And now, Israel, what does God want of you? Only that you remain in awe of God your Lord." Only remaining in awe is required, but everything else is controlled by God.
Incidentally, the language implies that having this awe is easy. But we know that it is not! How could Moses say so? That is because, for Moses, it indeed was easy. When they ask something of a person who has it, it seems like something small. But if they ask him for something minor and he does not have it, it looks like something big.
Art: Poverty and Wealth by William Powell Frith
Tuesday, January 4, 2022
Megillah 24 - When the priests come to bless the people
In the Temple, the priests were barefoot; today, they also take their shoes off for the blessing. If the priests have something unusual about their hands or feet, they should not bless the people who might be distracted by looking at them. But today, it does not apply because the priests wear socks, and their hands are covered with a tallith.
There is a prohibition in the Torah that one should not take a mother bird with its young. Instead, he should send away the mother bird. However, if he uses this as an argument in his prayer, saying that he, too, deserves mercy - the Talmud says his prayer text should be changed. That is because he is saying that the reason for this mitzvah is mercy on birds - but the real reason is unknown to people. Today, the prayer text is in the prayer books, and again this warning does not apply.
Art: Bird's nest by Franz Xaver Petter